Buy yourself a Mental Palace!
The Switch 002
Find The Way To Your Inner Sanctuary And Nurture It!
The 30 second takeaway
The first step to "flicking the switch" is to retreat and extract yourself from the present situation, find a quiet place to reflect and acknowledge your state of mind.
It can be difficult to find a physical place to retreat, especially if you're stuck somewhere like an office, home, or train.
The concept of a "happy place" or "safe place" is often recommended by therapists, counselors, and religious leaders, but it's not always easy to find.
Lucas offers the idea of buying "real estate" in a place that really matters, a place where you can instantly teleport yourself to flick the switch and be in the right conditions for self-love, self-awareness, relaxation, and meditation.
This place doesn't need to be happy or pretty, but it should be calm, comfortable, safe, and allow for quality time with yourself.
The currency to buy this real estate is not money, but quality time with yourself.
Possible names for this place include "mental palace," "retreat abode," "inner sanctum," or "soul temple."
To build this place, you need to create space and time in your life for quality time with yourself, which can be done by plugging into existing daily routines like walking to work, being in the shower, or doing sports.
Occasional moments like long trips or personal challenges can also contribute to building this place.
Once you've acquired this real estate in your mind, you need to keep cultivating it so that it remains friendly, welcoming, and meaningful.
This retreat abode is probably the biggest asset we can have in life, a place where we can acknowledge and recognise ourselves blamelessly and process what's going on in our lives.
Introduction
In our fast-paced, constantly-connected world, we often need to reset ourselves, and recover, by "flicking the switch", as previously discussed in another episode.
To this effect, it's essential to create and grow a personal sanctuary – a mental space where you can retreat, reflect, and reconnect with yourself. This sort of inner "retreat abode" serves as a refuge from the noise and chaos of daily life, offering a haven of calm, comfort, and self-acceptance. In this post, we explore the concept of this retreat, why it's crucial, and how to create, maintain and grow your own "mental palace" on the long haul.
Home, Sweet Home
Stepping Away from the daily Chaos
The first step in "flicking the switch" is recognising the need to extract yourself, at least temporarily, from the present situation. The best approach for that, when you are constrained by physical and geographical limitations, is to find your way to a sort of inner sanctuary. It's about creating distance – both physical and mental – to gain perspective and clarity. Just as Sherlock Holmes retreated to his "mind palace" to solve complex mysteries ... just like Doctor Who licking his wounds in his incredible Tardis ... you need to find and secure a space to pause, breathe, and recalibrate.
A Safe, Calm and Comfortable Space
Your inner retreat should be a place of absolute calm, safety, and comfort – a space where you can let your guard down and be utterly yourself. It doesn't have to be a picture-perfect paradise, nor the so-called "happy place" your spiritual advisor or psychologist might have alluded to. More than an actual physical place, it's most likely a somewhat abstract and subjective experience, tailored to your personal preferences and needs on the long run. What matters most is that it feels like a welcoming harbour, free from judgement and external distractions.
A Place for Quality Time with Yourself
Ultimately, this sanctuary is about making quality time for self-reflection, self-care, and self-awareness. It's a sacred space where you can have frank conversations with yourself, meditate, journal, or simply exist in the present moment without external pressures or expectations. This quality time is the currency you'll use to build and enrich this retreat abode.
Buy once ... but keep investing!
Making Time
Creating quality time for yourself might seem daunting, but opportunities exist within your daily routines. Commutes, showers, solitary meals, exercise sessions – all of these can become pockets of time dedicated to nurturing your inner sanctuary. Occasional trips or personal challenges can also provide extended periods for deeper exploration and cultivation.
Collecting the Pieces
As you carve out these moments of solitude and self-reflection, you'll begin accumulating the "building blocks" of your inner retreat. Memories, sensations, realizations, and insights will gradually coalesce, forming the unique landscape of your sanctuary. It might include elements of nature, remembered experiences, or symbolic representations of personal growth and resilience.
Keep sowing and watering!
Building your inner sanctuary is an ongoing process – a lifelong journey of self-discovery and self-nurturing. As you evolve and your circumstances change, your mental retreat will evolve with you. Continuously cultivate this space, tending to it with the same care and attention you would a cherished garden. Allow it to grow, shift, and adapt, always serving as a welcoming and meaningful haven.
Conclusion
In a world that often demands us to be everything to everyone, your inner sanctuary or "mental palace" is a precious gift to yourself – a place where you can simply be, without apology or pretence. It's an investment in your mental and emotional well-being, a sanctuary that will sustain and nourish you through life's challenges and transitions. Embrace the process of creating and nurturing this sacred space, for it is here that you'll find the clarity, resilience, and self-acceptance to thrive.
Thanks and acknowledgements
This Podcast was produced with passion and love in green Geneva, Switzerland. It is proudly sponsored by Valeris Coaching, and primarily produced and delivered by senior coach Lucas Challamel, as part of his Youtube Channel, The Camel Hall.
https://poe.com/Claude-3-Opus, contributed to brainstorm and as a sounding board for some conceptual propositions.
The video was patiently edited with the free version of CapCut, including sound fx, stickers and automated captions (Such a great feature!)
About “The Switch” podcast
Are you ready to unlock the power of your mindset? Welcome to “The Switch” — a podcast that will empower you to master the art of consciously shifting your mental state, even on the toughest of days.
Hosted by Lucas CHALLAMEL, a high-performance mindset coach, personal growth expert, and ethical leadership mentor, this podcast is your ultimate guide to understanding, improving, and leveraging the incredible potential of your mindset. Through insightful discussions, expert interviews, and actionable strategies, “The Switch” will equip you with the knowledge and tools to flick the switch and achieve breakthrough personal and professional growth.
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